Happy Father's Day⁠↗

We are not taught as kids to feel okay in the wide expanse between what we want to happen and what happens because the bigger that gap, the bigger the failure. And life, we are taught, is not about failure. It is about success, which we define as bridging the gap between your expectation (I want to be a ______) and your reality (I studied for a while and now I am a ______).